We often look at other people and try to replicate their success, sometimes doing things that are not intrinsic to us. We grow into the belief that we need to change, becoming more rigid, brash, and assertive. We do things we don't like. How often this brings frustration and misunderstanding of our place in the world! Stop rushing and listen to yourself. You already have everything you need inside. Take it out and love it as much as you can. You are enough.