The Japanese say you have three faces.

The first face, you show to the world. The second face, you show to your close friends, and your family. The third face, you never show anyone. It is the truest reflection of who you are.

Who is your character when people are watching? Who is your character when they’re not? Think of “faces” as what’s showing: expression, opinion, reaction. Each face represents a different way your character interacts with and reveals themselves to the world. Each face reveals a different aspect of your character. It’s easy to focus on just one or two faces, but exploring all three in turn will help you understand your character better and make them feel more full, and well-rounded.

Uncover All Three You may find it easier to uncover one or two faces. Take the time, to explore all three. You’ll find that each face informs the other two, and as you reveal each one, you’ll add dimension to your character and help yourself connect even more deeply.