You must be humble. Don't wear short dresses. Lose weight. Go in for sports. Don't be so skinny. Don't dress too provocatively. Do not smoke. Don't drink alcohol. You must have a child. Why do you have so many children? Read a lot and educate yourself. But don't try to be the smartest... Often appearance and behavior have nothing to do with the soul and character. Modern women often have to pretend to avoid social disapproval.