There are many options for enhancing attractiveness. There are eye-shadows and lipsticks; clothes and accessories: surgeries and treatments; scents and lotions; probiotics and antioxidants; diets and regimes. The possibilities are endless. You could even work on your personality by reading articles filled with tips on how to lure your heart’s desire!

But looking at you now, it’s very clear to me what’s missing. And it’s none of those.

Without it, that stuff isn’t going to make a big impact anyway. With it, you’re going to feel like a new person.

In fact, it’s not something you need to do, but something you need to stop doing.

You need to stop talking to yourself. That voice that points out your blemishes and imperfections in the mirror, or repeats the stupid things you’ve said back to you in that maddening mantra? You need to stop that. It’s not who you are. It’s a narrative, and it’s time for it to end.

Because nothing is sexier than self-confidence… except maybe bunny ears.