The wise build their homes and the foolish destroy them with their hands, it turns out that we ourselves are our first home, and we should build ourselves instead of constantly damaging ourselves with comparisons, judging ourselves and not forgiving ourselves.

Those foolish things only cause leaks, causing us to flood.

Another thing, no one knows the leaks in someone else's house, only who lives in it, so enough of us judging others, it is time to help heal, not open more wounds.